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Week 6: Lessons on Faith, Focus, and Forgiveness

Life of a Support Facilitator

This week was a collection of lessons all rolled into one. What began as an ordinary week ended with me realizing that sometimes we have to pause, regroup, and refocus on what truly matters.

I’ve been tutoring on Sunday afternoons while managing a fast-paced workload this school year, and I’m learning that I can’t pour from an empty cup. I needed to take a day off to rest, reflect, and reorder my priorities—and that begins and ends with God.

Re-centering Through Prayer

On Tuesday, I spent time reading my Bible and praying. That quiet time gave me a renewed perspective and a sense of calm I didn’t realize I was missing. I was reminded that God doesn’t call us to carry every burden, only to bring them to Him.

Wednesday’s training on transition planning for students moving to high school and beyond was eye-opening and full of practical information. It reminded me that each student’s journey is unique, and preparing them for success beyond the classroom is one of our greatest responsibilities.

Returning to work Thursday was not easy, but I came back ready to serve—managing student needs, supporting behavior, solving problems for staff, and even training a teacher on a new reading curriculum. By Friday, I felt back in rhythm again—renewed and grateful.

Faith and Perspective

I haven’t often shared my faith here, but one lesson I’ve learned this week is simple yet profound: prayer changes things.

I don’t have all the answers, but I know Who does. I believe God uses me each day to help others. If I don’t know the solution, you can trust that I will pray for one—for you, for our students, and for our school community.

Our students need to feel seen and heard. The simplest way to reach them often begins with connection, not correction.

Lessons from the Week

This week taught me several key lessons:

  1. Rest matters. We cannot pour into others if our own cup is empty. Taking time to breathe and refocus isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom.

  2. Focus on what you can control. I can’t solve every problem or carry every burden, but I can give my best to the tasks and people right in front of me.

  3. Trust others. I expect perfection, especially when it comes to IEPs, because I wanted that for my own daughter. But others can do great work too—even if it looks different from mine.

  4. Forgive freely. Whether it’s forgiving myself or extending grace to others, forgiveness is freeing. God calls us to love one another, and love always leads to understanding.

  5. Lend a helping hand. Small acts of kindness matter. A word of encouragement, a check-in, or a moment of listening can change someone’s day.

  6. Collaborate with humility. Every person’s opinion holds value. When we listen, we often discover that the truth lies somewhere in the middle. Working together brings the best outcomes for kids—and for us.

Gratitude and Grace

I want to give a special shoutout to the people who helped me through this week:

  • My mom, for always praying for me.

  • My best friend, for talking with me for hours when I needed encouragement.

  • My mentee, who prayed over my classroom when I was feeling discouraged.

  • My principal and assistant principal, for listening, understanding, and continually supporting me.

This week reminded me that faith, friendship, and reflection keep me grounded. I’m thankful for a God who gives grace, for people who lift me up, and for a career that continues to teach me more about purpose and perseverance every single day.

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